Romanticizing Rest: Finding The Perfect Pajamas
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If I were ever to create a clothing brand, it would hands down be pajamas.
Every single girlfriend or Instagram friend I’ve spoken to shares the same frustration: why is it so hard to find sleepwear that’s cute, comfortable, and actually wearable?
Add in our personal quirks: some of us sleep hot, some love to bundle up, some (like me) live in oversized concert tees or fabrics so soft they feel like butter. At the end of the day, we all want the same thing: to feel a little special when we’re winding down.
I went beyond my usual comfort zone and did the homework for all of us. I researched pajamas for every vibe and every season. I tested, ordered, and styled them from cozy classics to playful sets I’d actually want to be seen in.
Here are a few favorites I’ve been living in:
1. The Everyday Classic: Polo Ralph Lauren Cotton T-Shirt & Shorts Set
This light blue set is my go-to when I want to feel polished yet effortless. Perfect for lounging around on weekend mornings or sipping coffee on your patio. The cotton is breathable but structured enough to feel put-together.
Wearing XS and it also comes in powder pink!
2. The Luxe Lounge: Velvet Robe Moment
For those nights when you want to feel like you’re starring in your own old-Hollywood film. I love throwing on a velvet robe in deep green (or black) while doing skincare or sipping a glass of wine at the vanity. It feels indulgent in the best way.
I guess my recommendations are spot on because they sell out fast! My RL robe is sold out everywhere, but I found a few left on Amazon! I also linked a similar version, but it’s pricey.
3. The Cozy Cuddler: Ralph Lauren Pink Pajama Set
I wear this when I’m working from home, catching up on emails, or reading—when I’m not quite ready to start my day yet. Nadia, my teenager, has one too!
Wearing XS, but would recommend S or maybe even M for added comfort.
4. The Weekend Escape: White Ribbed Henley & Pants
This set is perfect for lazy Sunday mornings with coffee and the newspaper in bed. It’s comfy without being frumpy, and I love the waffle texture. Also works great for those “Netflix and cozy” afternoons.
Wearing XS but would recommend S.
→ Shop The RL White Ribbed Set Here
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5. The Breakfast in Bed Set: Plush White Robe
A classic. I always have a fluffy white robe on standby for breakfast-in-bed moments or post-shower lounging. It makes even a casual morning feel like a mini hotel getaway.
6. The Secret Favorite: Negative Underwear Whipped Collection
Another brand I wear a lot is Negative Underwear. It’s a bit sheer, so I can’t show it to you here—but trust me, I have it in every color and love it.
→ Shop The Negative Track Pants Here
→ Shop The Negative Henley Top Here
7. The Flirty Favorite: Polo Ralph Lauren Ruffled Short Pajama Set
If you want something playful and romantic, this ruffled pajama set is perfect. It’s a little more feminine and flirty than my usual picks, but I love how it makes even the most ordinary night feel like a getaway. I just ordered this set and can’t wait for it to arrive!
Bonus: the ruffle detail makes it cute enough to wear around guests on a girls’ trip or cozy weekend at home.
→ Shop The RL Ruffled Pajama Set Here
Consider this your reminder to romanticize even the quietest moments because looking good for you is reason enough.
xx,
Monika
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